one begins to wonder why love escapes them and in that thought they look into there souls to find what they did wrong but this is not always the case sometimes love is the burden of two individuals but in some even more burdened cases its the past of the two individuals that kills them or the fact the two are unable to tell each other important information, most believe a relationship is just a feeling but its not just that in fact its a calming effect you have on them and vise versa the issue with most is they believe there relationship should be like the ones on T.V. were the guys can read woman like a book when ladies it's not possible for a man to just read your mind infact if your looking for a soap operah man turn on the tv otherwise don't bother looking for that what woman fail to notice is a good man yes they treat you right but are they the same man around there guy friends that they are around you are they hard workers that can hold a job these simple things can tel you a lot about a man example if a man can't commit to a job how can he commit to you if hes way differant around his friends then what is he hiding from you these simple things seperate a man from a boy or a gentleman from a player anyway done with my long rant hope you like